Body image is a person's perception of the aesthetics of sexual attractiveness of their own body. It involves how a person sees themselves, compared to the standards that have been set by society. (Wikipedia,2019)
Dari artikel yang gue baca dari centerforchange.com, bilang kalo the vast majority of girls want to change various aspects of their appearance. Unfortunately this is having an emotional toll on young girls, and they are feeling inadequate and often turn to severe behaviors in an attempt to manipulate their bodies to “fit into” an unrealistic standard of beauty.
Every comparison that made between us and other people. It will be insecurity. Some people spend their time looking for more, instead of appreciate what that already have. Waktu baru ketemu temen-temen lama, yang dikomentarin body. Such as like "lu gendutan ya", "lu kurusan aja", "loh ko lu jadi jerawatan". Padahal, maybe orang-orang yang gendut ingin kurus or yang kurus ingin gendut. Dan Gue ga paham sama people yang tidak appreciate sama apa yang orang lain udah punya. Such as like "gedein tuh your breast biar kaya....". Gue kalo digituin suka nganggep itu bercanda padahal sadar atau tidak, he did body shaming and make people are being insecurity. Padahal lebih berbobot pertanyaan kaya "how's your life?" dibanding ngecompare atau comment their body.
Oh iya gue selalu bercanda sama pasangan gue, "gue mau ke korea ya. Mau operasi breast gue. Biar gede" Dan pasangan gue selalu bilang, "Sebagai Manusia itu kita harus bersyukur"
This's one of the reason why I never feel insecure with my body. I'm grateful what I already have!
If you look at what you have, you'll always have more but if you look at what you don't have, you'll never enough. So, be grateful!
Dari artikel yang gue baca dari centerforchange.com, bilang kalo the vast majority of girls want to change various aspects of their appearance. Unfortunately this is having an emotional toll on young girls, and they are feeling inadequate and often turn to severe behaviors in an attempt to manipulate their bodies to “fit into” an unrealistic standard of beauty.
Every comparison that made between us and other people. It will be insecurity. Some people spend their time looking for more, instead of appreciate what that already have. Waktu baru ketemu temen-temen lama, yang dikomentarin body. Such as like "lu gendutan ya", "lu kurusan aja", "loh ko lu jadi jerawatan". Padahal, maybe orang-orang yang gendut ingin kurus or yang kurus ingin gendut. Dan Gue ga paham sama people yang tidak appreciate sama apa yang orang lain udah punya. Such as like "gedein tuh your breast biar kaya....". Gue kalo digituin suka nganggep itu bercanda padahal sadar atau tidak, he did body shaming and make people are being insecurity. Padahal lebih berbobot pertanyaan kaya "how's your life?" dibanding ngecompare atau comment their body.
Oh iya gue selalu bercanda sama pasangan gue, "gue mau ke korea ya. Mau operasi breast gue. Biar gede" Dan pasangan gue selalu bilang, "Sebagai Manusia itu kita harus bersyukur"
This's one of the reason why I never feel insecure with my body. I'm grateful what I already have!
If you look at what you have, you'll always have more but if you look at what you don't have, you'll never enough. So, be grateful!